What comes first when you see the following paragraph appearing in your daily horoscopes?

You're looking for excuses to absolve someone from having hurt you when you should be forgiving yourself. Your anger is not just with the people or person who is causing this emotional upset but you're annoyed for having placed yourself in a situation where someone had the power to hurt you. You can't imagine ever getting an apology from them, so the least you can do is forgive yourself then push this incident behind you.